The 88 temples of Shikoku

· Fashion, Illustration, Travel

Before starting to tell you “in order” about our Japanese roadtrip from last May-June, since we left Awaji and finally arrived on the Shikoku island, here is an article to give you some context about this island.

When we decided to visit Shikoku, we knew that the 88 temples pilgrimage was pretty famous and it would rhythm our days of visit. We didn’t do the whole trail but we tried to stop by as much temples as possible when crossing the path.

The occasion for me to write down a few notes if you want to start this adventure or at least some of it as we did… but if possible with respect of the traditions!

 

The Shikoku pilgrimage

The pilgrimage called “henro” is quite famous in Japan and can be compared to St Jacques de Compostelle but easy to access for everyone, religious or not.

This trail retraces the path taken by the Shingon Buddhist monk, Kōbō Daishi aka Kûkai, who passed by these 88 spots of Shikoku in 805. His body rests in Koyasan near Osaka: therefore the full pilgrimage includes the 88 temples on the island and a last stop in Koyasan.

 

This being said, the purpose of this pilgrimage is quite personal: some people seeks for spirituality, others want to pray for health, success for themselves or someone else, or more simply they want to surpass themselves or look for a change of scenery.

We saw pilgrims in a bus (mostly old people) stopping by each temple and other courageous ones walking. We even met a Danish pilgrim who had been walking for the past 2 months on his own. In fact, there is no specific rules.

 


The itinerary

As for us, as we didn’t want to start a long walk for the next 2-3 months, we added this mini-pilgrimage to our road trip and stopped by all the temples on our way or close by for the first temples and the last one (N°88). Here is above the map of the full itinerary in case you feel like a true pilgrim.

Here are the 19 temples we have visited :
1.Ryozenji 2.Gokurakuji 3.Konsenji 4.Dainichiji 5.Jizoji 6.Anrakuji 7.Jurakuji 31.Chikurinji 39.Enkoji 40.Kanjizaiji 41.Ryukoji 42.Butsumukoji 43.Meisekiji 51.Ishiteji 68.Jinnein 69. Kannonji 70.Motoyamaji 75.Zentsuji 88.Okuboji

A lot of signs with the symbol of a walker can be seen and followed on the road. The itinerary is divided as follow:

  • Awakening : Awa (Tokushima prefecture) – Temples 1 to 23
  • Discipline : Tosa (Kôchi prefecture) – Temples 24 to 39
  • Enlightenment : Iyo (Ehime prefecture) – Temples 40 to 65
  • Entering Nirvana : Sanuki (Kagawa prefecture) – Temples 66 to 88

Beforehand I read a book from Marie-Édith Laval “Comme une feuille de thé à Shikoku” who tells her walking solo experience on Shikoku island with only a backpack and her hiking shoes.

I recommend you to read it to get a good idea of the ambiance. It seems that this pilgrimage has transformed her due to the efforts made, hurdles and human encounters: very inspiring !

 

The pilgrim outfit

Here again, we are free to wear whatever we want (always with decency, obviously) but if you want to fully take part in this pilgrimage you can purchase this outfit and accessories at the shop located at the entrance of the temples. I quickly sketched a typical outfit of the pilgrim in Shikoku.

To sum up, for a full « henro » outfit you need:

  • The white shirt “Hakui” (this color is related to death because back then a lot of pilgrims died during their journey: encouraging isn’t it?): The back of the jacket is printed with symbols in honor of Kûkai.
  • The “Sugegasa” conic hat : to be protected from the rain or the heat.
  • The “Kongozue” wooden stick supposed to represent KûKai: it will be your travel companion (I saw a few beautiful ones with the top part embroidered with fabric).
  • The “Wagesa” stole to wear around the neck.
  • The “Zudabukuro” bag (and its “Jirei” bell hooked) to carry a Nokyocho notebook (I will tell you about this after), incense sticks, candles, “samefuda” (=cards with the name of the pilgrim to leave in each temple), a book of prayers(=kyohon)…
  • A Buddhist rosary “Juzu” for prayers.

 

How to visit a temple ?

Clearly, it will depend on your religious belief but knowing the tradition might help you to better understand the pilgrims you’ll meet.

No obligation to follow everything and you can simply admire the places but here is the basic you need to know:

At the entrance of the temple, the pilgrim joins his hands in front of his chest and bow 3 times while saying 3 phrases in the honor of Buddha. Then, he purifies his hands (and sometimes the mouth) with water. And he must visit:

  • The main temple Hondo (dedicated to the temple divinity) (where he will pronounce a few phrases and throw coins into the wooden box, then put a “samefuda” card into another box, ring the gong, burn an incense stick and will pray while bowing)
  • The Daishido (dedicated to Kûkai): (with a phrase to repeat 3 times)
  • The Nokyocho desk : the place where his notebook will be marked down with calligraphy.

When exiting the temple, the pilgrim must turn back and bow with his hands joined and hop ! Direction to the next temple!

 

The nokyocho and its calligraphies

This notebook can be purchased in each temple: I bought mine at the first one, it has illustrations of all the temples on the pages so it was easy for me to recognize them. It also exists with blank pages.

When we arrive at the nokyocho desk (can be easily found with a drawing of a small mascot), after paying 300¥, we give our notebook to the calligrapher who will draw with his pencil. He then affixes 3 seals, which symbolize the name of the temple’s god (called “honzon”), the name of the temple and his number.

Some calligraphers don’t want to be photoshoot while drawing: make sure to ask first. The calligrapher then gives you an envelop with a card (I didn’t really understand the meaning but take it, it can only mean luck!).

We are far from having our notebook full but it represents a really nice souvenir of this journey though… and who knows! I might have the chance to finish it in the coming years?

So here is this pilgrimage in a nutshell (you can find videos in my Highlighted Instastories). I will come back soon to tell you about Obokke on the way to Kōchi! See you soon! (English translation by Quiterie)

Happy new year of the rat !

· Decoration, Illustration

It’s still the greeting period for the New Year and here I am again to celebrate this lunar new year of the rat!

Bye bye pig, welcome rat! I don’t know if the meaning of the sign is positive or not but let’s say this 2020 year will be all positive anyway! I wish you all some magic, good health, happiness and to share a lot of moments full of love with your friends and family!

 

 

A yellow or pink wallpaper

Here is a wallpaper to use all this year long : I hope you will like it and it will make you smile: Cheeeeeese! Happy Year of the rat! Happy Têt! Chúc Mừng Năm Mới !!

 

Yellow lock screen wallpaper here
Yellow dashboard wallpaper here

Pink lock screen wallpaper here
Pink dashboard wallpaper here

 

You can download this wallpaper by clicking on it and simply register the image into your image gallery. Then, choose it as home screen on your phone (do not forget to resize it as the iPhone usually tends to zoom images).

This illustration (like all the others on this blog) has copyright and can’t be modified (color, layout, drawing, signature…). You can only use it for private personal usage and no commercial opportunity. Thanks ! (English translation by Quiterie)

A personalized Advent calendar

· Decoration, Food, Illustration

As I promised you, I am back after the holiday season to give you my “Personalized Advent Calendar” challenge feedbacks, which we agreed on doing last Christmas with Lionel, Noemie and Candice.

If you follow me on Instagram, you already know that this idea came up after a 2018 Christmas without advent calendar (“Ooooh poor girl…”). I convinced my friends to exchange a personalized advent calendar for Christmas 2019 (my SO was motivated to receive one too but not to prepare one for me… smart one!)

So I had to do 24 gifts for 4 different persons: well OK… I didn’t choose the easiest way… but the good news is, I knew I would receive 3 calendars in return!

You’ve probably already seen on my Instagram stories what we’ve got during this beautiful month of December: in a nutshell… Magical!

So I decided to write down here (in details as much as possible) our feedbacks in order to motivate you to do the same for one (or more) of your loved one next year…. who knows!

I couldn’t list all the gifts (you can find them all on my Instagram Stories here here and there) but you will see a few while reading this article… The most important is to find yourself the gift ideas because it must be personalized! The Christmas tree might be gone (not at my place yet!) but it’s already time to think about next Christmas!

 

When to start the preparation?

Tshirt and headband gifted by Noémie

 

I organized this article as it was an interview: so you will have all the feedbacks from our TACEC (= “The Advent Calendar Expert Committee”), which will help to better understand the challenge. First question: when did we start preparing these Advent Calendars?

TKBB : “Since January 2019 by creating a note on my smartphone for each person, in order to list all my ideas but I only started to buy the first surprises during my trips to Japan and London (May-June 2019). At the end of August, Christmas was finally approaching quickly so I started to get more seriously into this challenge.

For the yummy calendar for my SO (he only wanted food), I started in November-December buying day by day his treats.”

LIONEL : “End of January 2019 after TKBB said “I saved the world with my Miss France playlist” (Editor’s note: indeed, this was an important detail considering the surprise 24th of my calendar)

NOÉMIE : “Since January 2019. I created a note on my smartphone right away and wrote down every day my ideas. I purchased the first gift around spring. Then, I brought back a few things from my travels and purchased most of the gifts in September. I was really looking forward to the Christmas items being available in stores.”

CANDICE : « I might have started to think about ideas the first week of November 2019, but I really started speeding up the process the week of November 15th and everything was done on the 20th to hand them over.″

 

What budget ?

Fake banknotes for a good moment together gifted by Candice

 

I will give you a global answer as we didn’t define a real budget at the very beginning: we just had to make sure the surprise would fit in the box/pocket and for the sake of minimalism (more or less!) I told them to avoid useless things (= I didn’t want to end up receiving multiple cute small items, if they were cute, they had to be useful too). Overall, each surprise was around 5€-10€ (with a few exceptions).

When I was talking about this challenge to other people, quite often the answer was “wooow but it’s about €100-€200 per calendar! Much more expensive than one you could buy!” (I would say that if you start thinking this way, well this “Personalized Advent Calendar challenge” isn’t for you!)

Even though we have to admit that this kind of budget might not be easy for everyone. But this being said, if you buy all along the year, it might be easier and when we love… we don’t count, do we?

And, if you want to try with a smaller budget (and start a real challenge!), you can create yourself all the surprises (kitchen, DIY, small handmade items) or intangible gifts (words, souvenirs, pictures…). You can mix a bit of everything: the most important is the intention and the heart you will put into it!

 

Which container?

 

TKBB : “With the constraint of creating 4 calendars, I used paper pockets for my 3 friends that I put into boxes or customized bags. I made one in wood for my SO (let’s rather say for both of us) to be able to use it again every year. It was a real pleasure to prepare all these pockets and boxes along with a kind note every day.”

LIONEL : “I found a wooden box from IKEA that I customized and filed with decorated paper kraft pockets = I thought that the wooden box could be reused after to store the Christmas decorations » (Editor’s note: I approved this idea and now use it to store Christmas ornaments!)

 

 

NOÉMIE : “I used a set of small houses in paper to fold and filled them with surprises and fake snow » (Editor’s note: very pretty and original but I was spreading it all over the place so I was kind of oblige to open them on top of my trash bin !).

CANDICE : “I found a piece of wood in the countryside and hung up all the surprises after wrapping them in multicolor gift papers”

 

What content ?

Anti-worry doll and magical stones gifted by Candice and Lionel

 

You’ve often asked me some ideas or names of store where to find surprises. Rather than giving you names of shops, here are our answers to this question: Where and how did we find inspiration/ideas?

 

TKBB : “For the food, I was deciding based on the taste of each of them when I was entering a shop or traveling (Candice’s favorite tea, Noémie loving American sweets, a private joke about Mon Chéri chocolate for Lionel…) I tried to include all kinds of chocolate while always choosing quality stores.

Fake Taylor Swift “Lover” CD album cover for Noémie, Magical ticket for Lionel,
Customized pouch for Candice and a few surprises I offered.

 

As for the rest, I tried to think about every single word we said while being together to find a surprise related (favorite star, little story, item that makes us laugh… everything can be turned into little surprises). I also created myself a few gifts (drawings, DIY pocket, fake magazine cover, fake CD cover…).”

Fake magazine cover I made for Candice

 

LIONEL : “I was writing down a list on my phone every time I had an inspiration in a shop, on the Internet or during our discussions. I tried to stick to her hobbies while avoiding useless items. “

“Dawson’s Creek” playlist gifted by Lionel thanks to a QRcode giving access to a homemade file which contains a list
of all the seasons and scenes corresponding of each song <3

 

NOÉMIE : “Since I was a kid my family has been calling me “The Queen of the gifts” as I always have a lot of ideas. Traveling helped me as I always brought back something. I always chose a few things I would have loved having. I listened what she was saying and of course… her passion for Lotso! I looked for nice and useful items but also related to me (for example the olive oil home made with olives from my garden). I mixed a bit of her and a bit of me.» (Editor’s Note: Soo beautiful! <3).”

“Dirty Dancing” socks gifted by Noémie

 

CANDICE : “In the stores, on the Internet… and while thinking about her when I was entering a shop”

Beauty products gifted by Lionel et Noémie and the oh-so-useful cotton swabs from Candice

 

The + and the –

Tree ornaments gifted by Lionel et Noémie

 

Because sometimes we faced difficulties or we found things obvious: what seemed the easiest and the most difficult in creating this calendar?

 

TKBB : The easiest : “The food (as very gourmand person, I loved wandering around shops to find different original AND good products”

The most difficult : “Try to create 4 different Advent Calendars and not just doing copy/paste to make each of them unique”

 

LIONEL : The easiest : “I started early in order to really think about the 24 days and make it personalized as much as possible”

The most difficult : “To keep it small so that it could be carried out (even though I gave her a huge wooden box!) and to limit the useless things.”

Cute AND useful Toy Story goodies mignons gifted by Noémie et Lionel

 

NOÉMIE : The easiest : “I found ideas quite easily but it got much more complicated after the number 17th”

The most difficult : “I got a lot of pressure about not buying useless things as she repeatedly told me to do so. Lionel secretly told me what he had found for her so I started to have doubts.” (Editor’s note: ahah! Sorry for the stress.. and there was no reason to doubt as I liked (and used) everything!)

 

CANDICE : The easiest : “to create the calendar: small boxes, nodes.. in a nutshell all the manual activities! “

The most difficult : “To find 24 different ideas… So I found a way to use one gift to fill 2 to 3 days (one pair of socks to fill 2 days, one reusable cotton bud for her, and one for her SO to fill 2 days too…)”

 

A few advices from our expert committee

Tea, chocolate, hot chocolate gifted by Lionel, Candice et Noémie

 

So here are a few advices to help you creating your Advent Calendar with love, effectiveness and serenity!

 

TKBB : “Always think about the receiver, anecdotes, moments spent together, his/her tastes : everything (a color, a meal, a movie scene…) can give you the opportunity to find a surprise or create a small gift. You’d better start early enough if you want to do it with your own hands for something more personal. Always write a note along your surprise to explain: I loved writing and reading them… it might even be my favorite part.

For the yummy calendar, the food was not always fitting the spaces, so instead I was placing a small note with a tip to find the yummy surprise in our apartment: my SO seemed to appreciate, waiting for his « Treasure hunting » every morning”

LIONEL : “Always think « What would please her/him? » instead of « What idea shall I find?”. Start early. Buy the food at the end even though you’d rather think about it in advance. Take a picture of each gift so you can remember what he/she will have every day.”

Electronic book to download “Esprit d’hiver” by Laura Kasischke and rainbow Post-its rainbow gifted by Lionel

 

NOÉMIE : “Think about the common Christmas gift: candles, tree ornaments, small cookies, teas… and adapt it to the receiver (as I knew she had bought a fake Christmas tree, the idea of a candle with Christmas tree smell came up naturally for exemple). Note everything on a list on your phone and then organize the different days (distribute homogeneously the chocolate and other pleasures along the month). Alternate gift, homemade DIY and small personal touches. Write a small note for each day.  And the most important question: Is it useful? Or is it going to end up in a box somewhere? »”

CANDICE : “Start early to find various ideas without stress”

 

To do it again for Christmas 2020, or not?

TKBB : “Super motivated! This being said, I think I already found all the « classical » ideas (tea, chocolate, treats…) and even though I wouldn’t mind doing it again, I think we’d better find another idea of challenge for the next time (Budget restriction? With a specific color? Theme?… to meditate!) in order to keep some surprise and magic! Anyways, these calendar really made my month of December beautiful, I loved it!”

LIONEL : “Yes, because it’s really cool to open one window every morning. However, it might be better to find a new idea of challenge so we won’t be repetitive with the ideas. With Sylvain (my beloved), we might create one together (with 12 days each) to avoid having too many things and also because looking at the other one opening his surprise every morning is also a nice present.”

NOÉMIE : “I could do it again yes. It was cool! I think I would buy the containers or I’d think about it differently. I would try to keep it simple and wait a little bit more before buying anything. I purchased a few things last Spring… that felt a bit useless for Christmas. Also, I wouldn’t wait the last minute to finish everything!”

CANDICE : ” With pleasure… and pretty much the same way but I would start a bit earlier for a better organisation!”

 

So? So? Are you going to try one for 2020? (English translation by Quiterie)

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